a person can only take so much emotion in such a short period of time.. too much of it and you get suffocated. i am right, right? or is it just me? sheesh thats the problem though, sometimes when someone feels good about something they assume that the other person feels the same way. and because they ASSUMED, they say something that means something else to the other person, and it's either they work it out or THEY DON'T. and usually in these cases things change between them. other times both of them feel something and it would either be that both would just keep it to themselves, or one steps up and they are happy. either way, THERE WOULD ALWAYS BE CHANGE.
my point here is, the one who steps up/makes a move or whatever. the fact that they took the risk knowing that it could either make or break what they had before. they should be ready to accept whatever the consequences are.. but NEVER make the other person feel like sh*t because they didn't return/accept whatever it was you were offering.
and if that other person gives you a leeway to make things right again, try to feel if they want to bring back/talk about what happened, and again NEVER take it against them if they treat you differently. why? because it was your doing in the first place, not theirs. i mean really, why bring that person down and make them feel bad just because they changed after? sheeesh
remember, simple words you say could CHANGE EVERYTHING..
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